Client with Sexual perception issue

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Permalink Reply by geoff goodman on July 3, 2010 at 8:41am

Hi all:

Thank you everyone for your responses so far, I did not realize I would evoke this many! I ended up typing up a great script based on other scripts that I have used. I will test for somnambulism, give her the convincers, and go through the script.
I learned that she wants to be a sexually confident woman and her parents told her expressing sexuality is wrong. I believe expressing who we are sexually is great especially for the creative side of ourselves. My second session will consist of age regression, third forgiveness of others, 4th forgiveness of self, and so forth - if you all would like I will definitely provide feedback on those as well. I also think her original email about not expressing what the true problem is, probably relies on the fact that as of now I am a stranger to her. Sex can sometimes be awkward to discuss - especially Female to Male.

I have good feelings about this session and can't wait to see the positive results. I also feel that a client needs to be ready mentally for this type of work, and by highlighting the benefits of the insights given it motivates them more. We also as Hypnotists need to be ready to take on this type of project, if we have any doubts, the negative energy will be emitted and the client will know. its just like when you have a lack of confidence Hypnotizing someone, your client knows. I will keep you all updated

Geoffrey Goodman
www.360hypnosis.com

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Permalink Reply by Kathleen Hanover on July 5, 2010 at 9:26am

With due respect, I'd like to point out that it doesn't matter what *you* believe, unless by happy accident, your specific beliefs are the exact ones your client would like to have. Your beliefs are none of your client's business.

Perhaps you could ask her what experience of her sexuality she would like to have, and then you could help her reverse engineer a set of beliefs that would allow her to have that experience?

That way you (and she) would know that her work product would be all hers, not something she copied off your paper during the exam. :)

geoff goodman said:

Hi all: Thank you everyone for your responses so far, I did not realize I would evoke this many! I ended up typing up a great script based on other scripts that I have used. I will test for somnambulism, give her the convincers, and go through the script.
I learned that she wants to be a sexually confident woman and her parents told her expressing sexuality is wrong. I believe expressing who we are sexually is great especially for the creative side of ourselves. My second session will consist of age regression, third forgiveness of others, 4th forgiveness of self, and so forth - if you all would like I will definitely provide feedback on those as well. I also think her original email about not expressing what the true problem is, probably relies on the fact that as of now I am a stranger to her. Sex can sometimes be awkward to discuss - especially Female to Male.

I have good feelings about this session and can't wait to see the positive results. I also feel that a client needs to be ready mentally for this type of work, and by highlighting the benefits of the insights given it motivates them more. We also as Hypnotists need to be ready to take on this type of project, if we have any doubts, the negative energy will be emitted and the client will know. its just like when you have a lack of confidence Hypnotizing someone, your client knows. I will keep you all updated

Geoffrey Goodman
www.360hypnosis.com

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Permalink Reply by John Cleesattel on July 5, 2010 at 12:26pm

Geoff,
I didn't reply to this discussion initially because I didn't know what exactly a skewed perception of sex meant, and you were getting some good responses so I didn't feel my input would have that much value. When I read the session plan you have formulated I felt it would be wise to respond now.

I would suggests that you start with a parts therapy session. The reason is that she wants to not only change a behavior, but she wants to change how she views that behavior, and both of these things are controlled by the judgmental mind, which is the mind that you talk to during a parts therapy session. This is where you will make the changes happen.

Present the point to the parts that have issues with the sexuality... that times change, people grow up into adults, and things that were true then for children, are no longer true for adults. Ask that they not only stop interfering with her sexuality, but actually help her achieve what she is looking to achieve so she can live a happier, healthier, and more satisfying life as an adult.

I have no idea, from what you presented, why forgiveness would be necessary, especially since you would be getting her to accept that what she is forgiving herself for...is now going to be acceptable behavior.

Age regression...yeah, okay,...depending on what you are going to do with it.

Direct suggestion and future pacing would be something that I would recommend after the parts therapy. Making the agreements made with her upper management a reality for her to experience.

I hope this helps you
John


geoff goodman said:

Hi all:
Thank you everyone for your responses so far, I did not realize I would evoke this many! I ended up typing up a great script based on other scripts that I have used. I will test for somnambulism, give her the convincers, and go through the script. I learned that she wants to be a sexually confident woman and her parents told her expressing sexuality is wrong. I believe expressing who we are sexually is great especially for the creative side of ourselves. My second session will consist of age regression, third forgiveness of others, 4th forgiveness of self, and so forth - if you all would like I will definitely provide feedback on those as well. I also think her original email about not expressing what the true problem is, probably relies on the fact that as of now I am a stranger to her. Sex can sometimes be awkward to discuss - especially Female to Male.

I have good feelings about this session and can't wait to see the positive results. I also feel that a client needs to be ready mentally for this type of work, and by highlighting the benefits of the insights given it motivates them more. We also as Hypnotists need to be ready to take on this type of project, if we have any doubts, the negative energy will be emitted and the client will know. its just like when you have a lack of confidence Hypnotizing someone, your client knows. I will keep you all updated

Geoffrey Goodman
www.360hypnosis.com

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