Finding Trust Strategies for Installation

Hello all, I guess everyone would agree that knowing whom/how to trust is one of the key abilities to living well and fully.

We all know that people who let the guard down and trust without a proper unconscious strategy to do so may become *real* hurt inside. One of the quickest ways to kiss one’s inner peace and self-love goodbye is not to trust the ‘right people’ or not to trust at the ‘right time’ or the ‘right amount’.

Well, enough of that ‘hurt’ yakking.

So, yes, having a good trust strategy is of paramount importance. Also, I’m here presupposing that we have the basic NEED to trust someone. Actually, I’m even presupposing that the more people we can trust and the more we can trust them (and being right about it), the better we live and the richer and more expressive/meaningful our inner and outer lives are.

The thing is some of us are just too analytical and trust only ourselves, remaining quite cold inside. And we might even be proud of it, if we don’t keep in mind the huge price there is to pay for this kind of “security”.

Well, my opinion about analysis in trust is that we *should* be analytical, because that’s one of the prerequisites of finding “quality trust” in people (I’m smiling as I write that). We have to be good at seeing the right trust cues and giving them proper meaning, so that the right people convince us without actually trying to convince us that they’re to be trusted.

Some of us, on the other hand, open up, put their guards down, trust easily and are always fine – when we are like that, our trust is always well placed. When we are in this headspace we just don’t have to deal with those kind of issues because they don’t even exist for us. Now *that’s* an ability I really, truly love and want to master for myself (who doesn’t?).

So, is it easy for you to find trustworthy people and be most always right about your judgements? Were you always good at picking the ‘right people’ to trust, or did you learn that? Have you got the knack for creating the right environments/situations that bring about solid, long-term trustworthiness in others?

Those who are familiar with NLP strategies, that’s exactly my goal here: I want to find the best trust strategy possible. Understand how to consistently brush dissociated rationality aside at the right moments, trust, and get that rush of truly feeling people - and do so with the best results, because we think and act based on a good, solid strategy.

If you rather just talk about it instead of presenting your strategy in a NLP format, great! It still goes toward the cause.

Much Love & Lots of Success,

Rafael