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hi hypnothoughts

 

i have no previous hypnosis experience except reading dave elmans book and a book by tad james.

 

i think i have enough knowlege from elmans book in particular to start my experiences.

 

i am interested in studying hypnosis but i am very opposed to spending money on a 3 day course.

 

i am 28 and have a wife and daughter but from dave elmans book i have gathered that family members and friends are not a good place to get experience, how did you guys start?

 

im kinda embarrassed about failing as well.

 

any tips would be really appreciated as i really want to study hypnosis

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Perhaps I should have said... Free = no value?

Jan Krüger said:
John Cleesattel said:
If you are serious about pursuing hypnosis, get live training. I understand you are opposed to spending money on it, but understand that you get what you pay for.
The thing with that adage is that there are more currencies than just money. I agree with the sentiment but when I say, "you get what you pay for", I don't mean it in the literal sense.
@ michael, its not that i cant afford it, i mean im by no means well off but i can afford it but many people seem to agree that elman's style of hypnosis is second to none (correct me if im wrong) and i dont want to go to a 3 day course as i am looking for experience now. i feel that it would be a waste of money that could go towards something else, after all im not looking to go into hypnosis as a profession.

"I am not sure if I have any interest in helping you or not. It depends on if you are unable to afford live trainings in which case - I am happy to help or if you are just opposed to investing in your education in which case I will just ignore your posts."

im sorry that you feel so strongly but dont you think that is a little harsh coming from someone of experience to a beginner? after all you were in my shoes once and im not convinced you would have liked being patronized like that.

thanks everyone for suggestions, keep em coming, the more the better!
Joel, please consider that the opinions you are receiving here ARE born of actual experience. And you DO get experiences in Live training courses... You are disagreeing with people who actually have the experience you are seeking. Don't knock it.

joelturner said:
im sorry that you feel so strongly but dont you think that is a little harsh coming from someone of experience to a beginner? after all you were in my shoes once and im not convinced you would have liked being patronized like that.

thanks everyone for suggestions, keep em coming, the more the better!
Hello Joel,

In the late 1970's my interest in hypnosis skyrocketed after being helped personally by hypnotherapy. Although I did experiment on a few friends in 1981 and 1982 with some good results, it seemed apparent to me that I could not adequately learn to use hypnosis professionally without "hands on" training...so in 1983 I decided to make the investment in live training.

Fortunately a friend recommended Charles Tebbetts, who was my trainer and mentor. His opinion was that one cannot master any art, hypnosis included, simply by reading a few books or attending a short workshop of only two or three days. He believed that there is no substitute for practice to master an art with confidence and competence, and that one's training should include width and depth in a number of different techniques.

If you ever plan on using hypnosis professionally, you owe it to both yourself and your clients to invest in live training from a competent hypnosis instructor. Choose wisely, as there are some courses that are not worth the investment.

Review the hypnosis FAQ at my website:
http://www.royhunter.com/hypnofaq.htm

Many hypnosis schools around the world use one or more of my hypnosis texts for their students, so my comments come from years of experience using the art of hypnosis to help clients...as well as 23 years of experience teaching professional hypnosis to others.

Roy Hunter, PhD, FAPHP
www.royhunter.com
I second what John said about it being a harder road, I went down that road and funnily enough Elman's book is one of my favourite books, I think it's amazing even though it was written over 30 years ago. I would recommend practicing and getting some experience before going for training as it can be done and any bad habits you pick up are easy to correct at the time being. Just make sure you know your stuff, as in successful pre-talks, how to word suggestions, and most of all how to deal with resistance.

I congratulate you for taking initiative and deciding to try it for yourself before forking out for a training weekend.

Check out YouTube as well it's the best place for watching other peoples techniques.

Any questions feel free to ask and welcome to Hypnothoughts :)
thanks guys i'm kinda thinking about finding a training now but im gonna try to hypnotize some people first i think. theres no way i can hurt anyone so i might as well give it a shot as my suggestions would be for feeling refreshed etc at this level

@Connor: thats quite a coincidence, did you begin by reading that or by something else? i assume you still havent had training?

thanks everyone
Yeah I haven't had training and I get along well, I think you really have stumbled across the hypnotist's bible right there.

I didn't start by reading it but I have become ten times better as Elman was ahead of his time and maybe even our time in terms of understanding depth etc. as most people talk about 30 or so different stages of hypnosis and "suggestibility" and I think Elman had it spot on.

Personally I'd give it a go before going to a training ;)

joelturner said:
thanks guys i'm kinda thinking about finding a training now but im gonna try to hypnotize some people first i think. theres no way i can hurt anyone so i might as well give it a shot as my suggestions would be for feeling refreshed etc at this level

@Connor: thats quite a coincidence, did you begin by reading that or by something else? i assume you still havent had training?

thanks everyone
Hi Joel,

Wayne is right to say that harm can be done using hypnosis without prior training and knowledge. While training we were suggested some script books and other books to read but when it comes to working professionally, some of those scripts don't work. Every session is different cos of client's needs or thinking pattern. While working as a therapist, I had a client who would not want to come out of hypnosis and after good 10mins of trying different techniques, I was able to bring the client back in the room and had to make sure that client was full awake before leaving my clinic.

The books only tell you so much about different techniques and ideas but a trainer will be able to share her/his knowledge, skills and experience which is essential. And the most important point is that your trainer to be there when you need help.

The hypnotherapist in the UK should have insurance before they start practise which you can't get until you can prove to the insurance company that you have trained from a registered institute. There are some really good training courses around the country and even Richard Bandler runs NLP courses in London which I am hoping to attend to expend my knowledge.

If you have any questions, send me an email.

Mohammed

PS: I am a full time practising advance clinical hypnotherapist and NLP consultant

joelturner said:
thanks guys i'm kinda thinking about finding a training now but im gonna try to hypnotize some people first i think. theres no way i can hurt anyone so i might as well give it a shot as my suggestions would be for feeling refreshed etc at this level

@Connor: thats quite a coincidence, did you begin by reading that or by something else? i assume you still havent had training?

thanks everyone
Could you clarify what you mean when you say about harm being done? I can't see the problem with him practicing and just giving basic suggestions like he said because even if he did say something like "go and rob a bank" we all know the person wouldn't do it. If you are talking about something else then correct me but I don't see any dangers in using hypnosis. It's a natural state remember.

Respectfully, Connor

Mohammed Magsi said:
Hi Joel,
Wayne is right to say that harm can be done using hypnosis without prior training and knowledge. While training we were suggested some script books and other books to read but when it comes to working professionally, some of those scripts don't work. Every session is different cos of client's needs or thinking pattern. While working as a therapist, I had a client who would not want to come out of hypnosis and after good 10mins of trying different techniques, I was able to bring the client back in the room and had to make sure that client was full awake before leaving my clinic.
The books only tell you so much about different techniques and ideas but a trainer will be able to share her/his knowledge, skills and experience which is essential. And the most important point is that your trainer to be there when you need help.

The hypnotherapist in the UK should have insurance before they start practise which you can't get until you can prove to the insurance company that you have trained from a registered institute. There are some really good training courses around the country and even Richard Bandler runs NLP courses in London which I am hoping to attend to expend my knowledge.

If you have any questions, send me an email.

Mohammed

PS: I am a full time practising advance clinical hypnotherapist and NLP consultant

joelturner said:
thanks guys i'm kinda thinking about finding a training now but im gonna try to hypnotize some people first i think. theres no way i can hurt anyone so i might as well give it a shot as my suggestions would be for feeling refreshed etc at this level

@Connor: thats quite a coincidence, did you begin by reading that or by something else? i assume you still havent had training? thanks everyone
Hi Connor,

You have given a very good example of 'robbing a bank'. You and I both know that it is possible to make certain people do something they do not want or wish to but are curious on conscious or subconscious level (and there was a case in Israel of man making women his slaves including investigation officer). Now I would like to believe that a professional and registered therapist would not cross the line.

If you were to practise hypnotherapy in the UK, you will find that training from recognised institute and insurance is essential. And the most important thing to consider is that you are working with an individual and her/his welfare is in your hands.

I hope this helps answer your question.

Mohammed

PS: I also provided an example of one of my client who would not come out of trance. The script books usually have a limited scripts on how to bring a client out of hypnosis.
Joel, I favor Michael E.'s thinking (and others herein) that live training with a certified instructor is extraordinarily important and add that several hundred hours of study and practice are needed for adeptness. And if your goal is to practice hypnosis on a professional level, it is essential to have some bonafide certifications. That said, I will add for clarity, that an Elmanesque approach is just as respectable as a lot of others. Remember, however, that many methods, techniques and skills are needed to be a working hypnotist because different people will need different approaches. Thus it is useful, beneficial and practical to know a wide variety of inductions. Getting started in any way that you can, is commendable. However, be certain of your skill set before approaching and charging the general public for your services. As far as I know, insurance carriers only cover certified practitioners.
I will add to the mix. Even a 3 day course that you mention will not prepare you for what you will encounter working as a hypnotist.

I would suggest completing a minimum of 300 hours in a comprehensive, hands on, live, in person school ... there are many around. And even with that, you will need to keep up with constant instruction just to keep up with the profession.

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