Hypnosis, NLP to Overcome Masturbation Addiction...

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Permalink Reply by Fable Goodman on November 9, 2009 at 2:18pm

I am wondering in what ways, and by who's standards it is excessive.
what is the frequency. (ie is it more or less than ten times a day?)
and what is the duration?

If he is at it for more than about ten minutes at a stretch, you could recommend a good (silicon based) lubricant, to prevent chaffing, and increase the pleasure.

Ok he says it is too much, but I am wondering if it is just a question of time management? or is his partner getting on his back abaout it?

Frequent masturbation (within reason and in an appropriate setting and context) is not neccesarilly a bad thing in my understanding. perhaps he is just feeling good old fashioned guilt about soemthing which is natural.

Love and hugs,

Fable

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on November 9, 2009 at 7:17pm

Thank you Fable and Scott, I don't have all the answers yet, and I will make sure to get back to you when I have it.

So far your suggestions are great.

Thanks Doreen Cohanim C.Ht

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Permalink Reply by Al Whitton on November 9, 2009 at 11:16pm

I'd shoot for
Reframing (he doesn't enjoy it enough as he does it too much. Create a once a day ritual to make it special,build excitement etc aplace that's safe and not gonna be disturbed etc.)
Go for compulsion blowout
IEMT
Parts integration
Lashings of trance!

;-)

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on November 9, 2009 at 11:31pm

Very Nice Al :0)

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht
www.HypnoCruise.com

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Permalink Reply by Al Whitton on November 9, 2009 at 11:55pm

Additionally, have him keep a Jerk-Off Journal, writing in it every time he bangs one out. Then say it's 10 times a day, demand he does it 13 times a day (safely).
Have him do this repeatedly, with volition. Get him then to acknowledge him bringing this thing into control, albeit increasing the signal.
Then do your other stuff!

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on November 9, 2009 at 11:59pm

Humm I got it... Thanks again Al...

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on November 10, 2009 at 1:17am

OMG Paul... I think I will be safe without wearing any big overcoat for the session, since he will not be able to do anything stupid, trust me, I had few who tried, and the moment I have noticed any unusual movement, I have given them the suggestion that now you are paralyzed. lol and I do warn them before, just in case....

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht

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Permalink Reply by Henxy on November 11, 2009 at 12:06am

My experience with people with really high drives is that they're just not enjoying it, so they keep going; trying to recreate that early (and now elusive) experience of relief with orgasm.
One really sad case was of a chap who'd been sexually abused by his grandfather. He believed his mother (abuser's daughter) knew, but was in denial, so didn't do anything about it. He loved all his family, and liked to do the stuff with others that his granddad had done to/with him. He had an interesting moral set as a probable result- including sex with men (as a man) 'not counting as infidelity' whilst in a relationship with a woman.

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on November 11, 2009 at 12:20am

Hi Henxy,

I agree with what you said, but this guy actually says, that he does enjoy it, his excuse is that he is investing more time in masturbation then other important things, such as work, family, etc...

I am still waiting for him to get back to me with some answers, since he kept skipping some questions, and before I am going to see him for a live session, I want to make sure he is sincere, since some people act as if they want help, while they really are looking for something else, If you know what I mean, so I am waiting, and If he is going to bombard me with emails not answering all other questions, then, I am not going to see him or even to help him... and I usually know what to ask to get into the bottom line...

and when they Ignore the trick questions, then I know better not to deal with them...

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht,HBCE

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Permalink Reply by Al Whitton on November 11, 2009 at 12:36am

Absolutley Dor,

If he messes you about in emails, he may well do so in RL!

Good luck, be strong, trust your unconscious and kick ass!


Al
Doreen Cohanim C.Ht said:

Hi Henxy,

I agree with what you said, but this guy actually says, that he does enjoy it, his excuse is that he is investing more time in masturbation then other important things, such as work, family, etc...

I am still waiting for him to get back to me with some answers, since he kept skipping some questions, and before I am going to see him for a live session, I want to make sure he is sincere, since some people act as if they want help, while they really are looking for something else, If you know what I mean, so I am waiting, and If he is going to bombard me with emails not answering all other questions, then, I am not going to see him or even to help him... and I usually know what to ask to get into the bottom line...

and when they Ignore the trick questions, then I know better not to deal with them...

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht,HBCE

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on November 11, 2009 at 12:56am

Thanks Al :)

Doreen Cohanim C.Ht

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Permalink Reply by Henxy on November 11, 2009 at 1:00am

The chap I was talking about said he enjoyed it, too. He described his 'need' as 'a healthy appetite'.
Some people think that by deceiving (or trying to) 'you', that they're succeeding, and being clever- almost like fighting the system.

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