NLP How to Apply Patterns ~ Integration in Real Life

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Permalink Reply by Jesus Gonzalez on February 8, 2010 at 9:53am

Anyone can help me?

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Permalink Reply by Cheryl Westley on February 8, 2010 at 10:23am

Go onto YouTube and search "NLP techniques" or just "NLP" ...you'll get ideas for application.
Lots of them.

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Permalink Reply by Karena on February 8, 2010 at 10:38am

Join an NLP group in your area if not start one.

Karena.

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Permalink Reply by Jesus Gonzalez on February 8, 2010 at 9:58pm

In my area, NLP groups dont exist.

Renember New York at 1800's. It's my city now :)

Ian, Im very patient, the problem is that the message was moving to the other page, and nobody would be able to answer it ¬¬.

I just want to know how do you apply NLP patterns to your real life.

Jesus

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Permalink Reply by Pattie Freeman CH.t, MST on February 8, 2010 at 11:17pm

I agree there are alot of things on Youtube you can experience the techniques..good luck

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Permalink Reply by Neil on February 9, 2010 at 2:58am

Dear friend,

NLP is hypnosis.
I did not start this rumor, Bandler did.

Techniques are are just variations of its application.

The reality of hypnosis/NLP is that it always works.
No-one ever fails at it.

The question is: if you are failing, then are you really hypnotizing/NLPing people?

Everyone seems to know techniques, but I have yet to come across many who can do them.
This is because NLP/hypnosis is not technique; it is "CONNECTION"!

You can rub your girl/boy friend up in the so-called 'right places' and in sequence, but unless you are connected, you're f*cked!

Get connected!
It'll come then......

Love and respect
Neil

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Permalink Reply by Jesus Gonzalez on February 9, 2010 at 4:53am

Ian, thanks for your comment. You made me see clearly that you don't apply them. It's a pity, it may be useful. I don't apply them neither, that is the because Im moving and Im here right now.

You are not going to make me 'lose' motivation because you live the life. I do it too, but Im another one who wants to apply, research, observe... what a boring life you have! (I dont want to insult you in any way, I just want to cue the boredom and routine of everyday life)

My life is totally real, as yours, as ours, even if you apply NLP or hypnosis in everyday life, it's still real! WTF are you talking about? What are you doing here? Just disturbing with some noisy thoughts?

Neil, thanks for your answer too. I know what you want to mean with 'CONNECTION'. But Im not asking how to connect with other people (i already do it). I'm talking about how to apply those NLP patterns in everyday conversations, in a non-therapeutic way. It seems almost impossible to apply them that way. Im superconfused xd

Before applying any Hypnosis in my life I was terrible in creative tasks, now I think that I have improved a lil bit, as driving a car. The problem is when I use my creativity to apply the NLP Patterns (or a specific one), I seem to be stuck, totally stuck. Like when I try to go and talk to a HotGirl (10), I feel totally blocked and without 'stream of energy', am I explaining myself?

Thanks! Jesus

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Permalink Reply by Melissa J. Roth on February 9, 2010 at 5:22am

There is a GREAT book by Steve and Connirae Andreas that will teach you how to apply NLP techniques to real world problems and real world clients. It is Heart of the Mind. Steve and Connirae are probably the top 2 innovators in teh field of NLP but their processes are always based on how to overcome problems or how to enhance one's life. They are tested on people who know nothing about hypnosis or NLP so they respond the way real clients respond, not other hypnosis or NLP students who have been pre-conditioned. Check out Steve's videos on You Tube. And, you can catch him on the HypnoSummit on March 27th and 28th as he demonstrates Forgiveness--how to do it and the benefits of using it with clients in a clinical practice.

I"ve taken too many NLP trainings with too many supposedly top NLP trainers only to come away not knowing how to integrate what I learned into my practice with my clients. Or, worse, trying to use the patterns the way I was taught only to have my clients look at me like I had lost my mind. Then I found the Andreas's books and videos and it all became clear. They have a lot of videos on You Tube and their books and videos on their web site are inexpensive.

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Permalink Reply by Jesus Gonzalez on February 9, 2010 at 5:27am

Hey Jay, Listen, Im not telling you to beleive, use, or apply anything, I'm asking HOW CAN I do it, not how can YOU do it. Please Ian, try not to post more unuseful comments.

Adrian, Im not talking about how to seduce women or how to talk them, I already do it. I just wanted to express what I feel when I try to apply NLP, it's just a comparision. But anyways thanks for your answer! Its true, I dont care about how beautiful is the HotGirl, I care about flowing in my conversations, meetings, dates..... Nowadays Im more creative, and each day I care even less about women (I refer to thinking about her.. etc..), some experiences have shown me, life is unique, life is yours, life is life :)

I think that practice may be everything I need... a matter of confidence... I have never been to NLP courses and I havent been trained. You know anywhere OK to learn NLP, how God wants it? (spanish expression). Not a fake NLP course where they teach you the basics, metamodel, anchoring.... Im talking about a GOOD NLP course.

Jesus!

Ian Jay said:

You sound like one of those born again Christians who tell me I need God in my life!

Maybe its hard to believe, but I really don't need NLP to exist as a normal functioning being. I suppose next you will be advocating that they distill it and add it to the drinking water ;-)

> NB I thought of it first, guys ...

IJ


Jesus Gonzalez Jaen said:

Ian, thanks for your comment. You made me see clearly that you don't apply them. It's a pity, it may be useful. I don't apply them neither, that is the because Im moving and Im here right now.
You are not going to make me 'lose' motivation because you live the life. I do it too, but Im another one who wants to apply, research, observe... what a boring life you have! (I dont want to insult you in any way, I just want to cue the boredom and routine of everyday life) My life is totally real, as yours, as ours, even if you apply NLP or hypnosis in everyday life, it's still real! WTF are you talking about? What are you doing here? Just disturbing with some noisy thoughts?

Neil, thanks for your answer too. I know what you want to mean with 'CONNECTION'. But Im not asking how to connect with other people (i already do it). I'm talking about how to apply those NLP patterns in everyday conversations, in a non-therapeutic way. It seems almost impossible to apply them that way. Im superconfused xd

Before applying any Hypnosis in my life I was terrible in creative tasks, now I think that I have improved a lil bit, as driving a car. The problem is when I use my creativity to apply the NLP Patterns (or a specific one), I seem to be stuck, totally stuck. Like when I try to go and talk to a HotGirl (10), I feel totally blocked and without 'stream of energy', am I explaining myself?

Thanks! Jesus

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Permalink Reply by Jesus Gonzalez on February 9, 2010 at 5:40am

It seems to be what happens to me Melissa :) Thank for your answer.. I'll look for that books and videos , or I'll lose my mind :D

Any more comments, experiences accepted, Thanks!

Jesus

Melissa J. Roth said:

Or, worse, trying to use the patterns the way I was taught only to have my clients look at me like I had lost my mind.

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Permalink Reply by Iacobet Cosmin on February 9, 2010 at 7:54am

First learn Hypnosis.Then you'll know how to do it.

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Permalink Reply by Jesus Gonzalez on February 9, 2010 at 8:22am

ok ill take your considerations. thanks

any comment will be welcomed.

jesus

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