NLP How to Apply Patterns ~ Integration in Real Life

Replies to This Discussion

Permalink Reply by Leshem Yosef on February 10, 2010 at 10:47pm

first basic practitioner then master practitioner
the master is no good without the basic practitioner first

Jesus Gonzalez Jaen said:

IT SAYS.

I just bought a ebook over there, 9,99$ and it remains being 9,99 not 4,45 :)

I would love to take a look at the master nlp practitioner homestudy course

Jesus

Leshem Yosef said:

I was just looking at the home page and they have Holiday Sale! 50% OFF
http://www.nlptoday.com/CubeCart/index.php
good luck
NLP don't break timid people walls
but a good hypnotist NLP master can us NLP technique to help you break them
Yosef


Jesus Gonzalez Jaen said:

This is what I was looking for:http://www.nlptoday.com/nlp_master_cert_class_outline_websignup_new...

Its +700$, I dont think Ill be able to buy it yet :)

Jesus

• ▶ Reply

Permalink Reply by Jesus Gonzalez on February 11, 2010 at 3:21am

Yes Cynthia, I think that it's what he does, and I believe I can perform it too.

The problem is that I'm spanish, so there may be some differences between talking in english and spanish. That's what I don't know how to integrate..

I can understand what your telling about entering the other person model of the world... but the problem begins when I dont really know how to access it. I can read eye accesing cues, and I can also difference VAK people from each other. Despite this, I don't really understand what is referred with 'entering the other person map'. Why am I entering? For example.. if someone is kinestesic, then I could, talk about good things in a kinestesic way, and picture problems in a visual way so it doesnt interfere with his 'map'. Am I explaining myself? I've got some writting problems (not enough vocabulary, maybe bad sintax, but..)

So, returning to the initial point. The problem starts when I access to the other person map... how can I do it? Which is your perspective on this? Did you accessed any time to a person's map of the world? Can you induce a good feeling or simply pleasure, while accesing to his/her map?

Some disturbing thoughts over here haha

Thanks , Jesus

Cynthia Cameron said:

Hi Jesus,
In answer to your question, would you make more friends having knowledge of NLP. Most definitely!
You ask how could I use NLP and which NLP patterns would be good to be used to make more friends?

I imagine your friend could be using such subtle techniques as mirroring and matching, pacing and leading, accessing eye cues and talking with an awareness of VAK language. In essence, you are entering the other person’s model of the world.

You meet nice girl, mirror and match, she sips her wine, then you do, after a while you pace and lead, you take the sip of wine, she follows and takes a sip of her wine. You talk in her Visual language. Wow, this Jesus guy is so cool. I feel just sooo comfortable with him.

Are you starting to get the picture?

I implement these techniques on a daily basis in both my professional and personal life.

For example, the boofy Aussie telephone technician is coming tomorrow to do some work at our practice so I am gearing up to enter his model of the world.

“Maate, mate, she’ll be right. Trust me. It’s a doddle. I’ll be done like a dead dingo in a jiffy … mate” (it’s OK if you don’t understand this because I have difficulties as well … and I was born here).

Seriously though in my opinion as a Master NLPer you will have great success overcoming your shyness learning and applying NLP techniques.


Cynthia!

Cynthia Cameron, Cht, MNLP

Jesus Gonzalez Jaen said:

Hello.

I would like to know if that NLP training may help me to make more friends. The thing is that really, Im a sociable person, but sometimes Im timid. I've got a friend who I think he uses NLP for his own development. He says that he push down barriers with anchors while talking with people (when he want something,, maybe kissing with a girl).

I would like to know how could I use NLP and which NLP patterns would be good to be used to make more friends?

Its incredible how fast my friend is friend of the other person and the other person has got total trust, while that other person is looking at you like... hey, what are you doing here? im HIS friend, not YOUR friend.

Its a very hard feeling to deal with, I just want to create some good image about myself and people appreciate this.

That is what I want NLP for, not therapeutic shit (I respect every therapeutist over here, and Im passioned about how they encourage other people to overcome their problems, and how they involved in their lifes,, its just a way of talking, sorry.).

I want that NLP (and myself) help me to push down blocking walls of energy between me and people. It's all I wish, I don't ask for money, I dont ask for cars, for houses. I just want love and more-intense relationships with my friends, family, even strangers, etc..

Any comment, suggestion, or metaphor will be welcomed :)

Jesus!

• ▶ Reply

▶ Reply to Discussion

• ‹ Previous
• 1
• 2
• 3
• Next ›
• Page