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Permalink Reply by John Cleesattel on November 24, 2009 at 8:00pm There may be another problem, possibly something that passing those tests will cause or affect.
I had a case with a woman who was taking the nursing certification exam. She had failed it twice and only had one try left, so she came to see me. She said she knew the material backwards and forwards but when it came time for the test, she marked down the wrong answers. She was so stressed out I had to use a core dump technique to calm her down. I decided there may be more to the story so I did parts therapy with her to speak to the part of her that was preventing her from passing the test. BINGO!
Come to find out, she has been separated from her husband for 9 years, yet they are still very good friends and he even pays for her nursing school classes. She made a vow to herself that when she got her nursing license that she would (finally be able to) file for the divorce, but part of her didn't want to go through with it. She knew she would lose her husband and the good friend he had been all these years and she didn't want it to happen, passing the test would mean she had to keep the vow, so she was sabotaging herself.
Oh, it was an easy fix. I just suggested that her vow to divorce him was based on her being financially able to, not on what she wanted, and if she didn't want to divorce him, then there was nothing forcing her to do so, and she didn't have to.
I hope that helps you
John
Permalink Reply by John Cleesattel on November 25, 2009 at 12:41pm Thanks for the reply, John. My first thought was that there was some secondary gain for not passing the test or getting the high score he wanted to be able to get into Tufts or a similar grad school.
I'll work on that aspect with him. BTW, what is the core dump technique? --Lisa
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