One of my clients today was a delightful young female college student. She has an engaging personality and we had a great session for overcoming exam anxiety. She seemed brighter than average but disclosed that she has great doubts about her ability to finish college. She was genuinely worried that she was seriously mentally ill. When I asked her how she knew she was mentally ill it was because she "knew things." She knew what her boyfriend was going to do before he did it. She claimed to know about events before they occured with great accuracy. She even spontaneously volunteered my mother's first name. Mom has been dead for 15+ years and there is nothing personal in my new office. Now she had my attention and we talked for an hour.
She stated that she had been admitted a couple of times to psychiatric units as a child ( age 6 and 14) because her mother believed she was mentally ill. She stated her mother is trying to have her diagnosed as schizophrenic and admitted to a long term psych hospital. When I asked her about this she stated that from an early age she had just "known things" about other people but had been too young to know that she needed to filter what came out of her mouth. At 6 she stated that her grandmother was going to die within a month. Grandma was apparently in great health and had no intentions of dying. Except that within the next 30 days she did indeed die. Her mother freaked out, took her to a psychiatrist and had her admitted to the psychiatric unit of a local hospital while Mom went to Brazil for a month to do research. (Mom is a PhD research scientist,) This experience taught her to filter what she told people.
At 14 she had a premonition that her best friend was going to die. She did NOT tell anyone and the girl accidentally took an overdose and died. When she freaked out her mother hauled her back to the psych ward for another couple of months.
She states that she has "experiences." She hears voices in her head--sometimes they sound like her voice, sometimes other voices. She sees things that are not there--ghosts, etc. And, again, she just knows things.
So, what seperates the mystic, the yogi, the psychically attuned from the schizophrenic? Do I believe this girl is mentally ill? Not for one minute. Do I think she could possibly get a diagnosis of schizophrenia? Absolutely, yes. But, so could Moses. He heard the voice of God talking to him through a burning bush that wasn't consumed by the fire? And, after Beethovan went stone deaf he kept on writing the music he heard in his head. So, he could have been daft also. What seperates the "knowings" this girl has from all of us who at times just "know" what to say to a client and it turns the tide for that client. If she can get a diagnosis of schizophrenia then I am mentally ill also. Has the entire health profession gone mad? Or is it just me?
How do you tell the difference between borderline or mild schizpphrenia and psychic ability or being intuitive? I read the DSM IV and a bunch of sites about this mental illness and I think 90% of todays "new age" people could fit the diagnostic criteria. Somebody help me out here.