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When you first start out using hypnosis, you may find yourself wondering if your trance partner is actually experiencing anything different! This is a major worry for beginners and can greatly influence your level of confidence.
Let's start a list of different signs of trance. Although some signs may be audible, keep in mind that over 90% of communication is non-verbal. Knowing this helps you understand the importance of visually and instinctively noticing the changes as they occur. Tip: not all trance occurs when the eyes are closed: look for signs during your intake period.
I'll start:
One of my "favorite" signs of trance is what Gil Boyne referred to as the "hypnotic sigh". When I see and hear my client take that deep sigh, I know that he has taken one step closer to letting go and allowing himself to experience the trance state. When using self-hypnosis, I relish the moment when I spontaneously release that sigh myself!
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Permalink Reply by Benjamin Jay Wight on May 16, 2010 at 7:53pm
Permalink Reply by John Cleesattel on May 17, 2010 at 11:50am There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested.
Example:
In a moment, I will say the name of a color. When I say this color you will notice that your left arm becomes very relaxed and begins feeling quite heavy. Let me know when you experience this so we can move on to the next step; Is that okay with you? Good. Are you ready? Good... Blue (snap).
Set compliance up as a condition to continue. If they aren't responding to what you are saying, find out right away and fix it, rather than wasting your breath any further.
just a suggestion
John
Permalink Reply by Benjamin Jay Wight on May 17, 2010 at 6:41pm I like this one, I usually use some or all of the above. I also find IMR a good indicator.
Pete
John Cleesattel said:There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested.
Example:
In a moment, I will say the name of a color. When I say this color you will notice that your left arm becomes very relaxed and begins feeling quite heavy. Let me know when you experience this so we can move on to the next step; Is that okay with you? Good. Are you ready? Good... Blue (snap).
Set compliance up as a condition to continue. If they aren't responding to what you are saying, find out right away and fix it, rather than wasting your breath any further.
just a suggestion
John
Permalink Reply by Kelley Woods on May 17, 2010 at 6:43pm There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested.
Example:
In a moment, I will say the name of a color. When I say this color you will notice that your left arm becomes very relaxed and begins feeling quite heavy. Let me know when you experience this so we can move on to the next step; Is that okay with you? Good. Are you ready? Good... Blue (snap).
Set compliance up as a condition to continue. If they aren't responding to what you are saying, find out right away and fix it, rather than wasting your breath any further.
just a suggestion
John
Permalink Reply by John Cleesattel on May 17, 2010 at 6:57pm Nice, John. As you have said (and I listened) if things aren't happening, chances are the client is not following your instructions. I agree with you on all accounts of getting permission to progress further, which acts as a deepener of itself, does it not?
John Cleesattel said:There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested.
Example:
In a moment, I will say the name of a color. When I say this color you will notice that your left arm becomes very relaxed and begins feeling quite heavy. Let me know when you experience this so we can move on to the next step; Is that okay with you? Good. Are you ready? Good... Blue (snap).
Set compliance up as a condition to continue. If they aren't responding to what you are saying, find out right away and fix it, rather than wasting your breath any further.
just a suggestion
John
Permalink Reply by Benjamin Jay Wight on June 28, 2010 at 3:55am In a manner of speaking it is a deepener because via the permission, the trance acceptance bandwidth is increased, and "depth of trance" is really just the boundry of acceptance.
John
Kelley Woods said:Nice, John. As you have said (and I listened) if things aren't happening, chances are the client is not following your instructions. I agree with you on all accounts of getting permission to progress further, which acts as a deepener of itself, does it not?
John Cleesattel said:There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested.
Example:
In a moment, I will say the name of a color. When I say this color you will notice that your left arm becomes very relaxed and begins feeling quite heavy. Let me know when you experience this so we can move on to the next step; Is that okay with you? Good. Are you ready? Good... Blue (snap).
Set compliance up as a condition to continue. If they aren't responding to what you are saying, find out right away and fix it, rather than wasting your breath any further.
just a suggestion
John
Permalink Reply by Keithanthony on July 5, 2011 at 5:37pm I also use IMR by suggesting to my subject that I wish to talk only to the Sub Conscious mind. I let my subject know that the subconscious mind will indicate to me non verbally . I usually look for a finger twitch, and ask when I see it for confirmation by feeding back what I see by saying, "I'm not sure yet whether that was a twitch or may have been your subconscious?" It usually twitches again if I have succeeded in making contact.
When it does twitch it takes them deeper, if there is no twitch still my question sends them deeper too. IMR are win/win
Keithanthony
Permalink Reply by Kelley Woods on July 10, 2011 at 11:42am Hi John
How do you find and fix the problem?
ian
John Cleesattel said:
There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested.
Example:
In a moment, I will say the name of a color. When I say this color you will notice that your left arm becomes very relaxed and begins feeling quite heavy. Let me know when you experience this so we can move on to the next step; Is that okay with you? Good. Are you ready? Good... Blue (snap).
Set compliance up as a condition to continue. If they aren't responding to what you are saying, find out right away and fix it, rather than wasting your breath any further.
just a suggestion
John
Permalink Reply by John Cleesattel on December 14, 2011 at 6:51am I ask the client what they ARE experiencing.
There are 5 basic reasons that people don't follow your instructions. Three are ignorance based and two are fear based.
Ignorance based:
1. They literally don't understand the instruction. Go deeper where? Double what? etc.
2. They try and expedite the process by anticipating instructions...instead of allowing each stair step to take them deeper into trance they are already at the bottom of the stairs waiting for the next instruction.
3. They try to help you by "making" the suggested reaction happen.
Fear based:
4. They won't "allow" it to happen because of fear of loss of control, fear of revealing secrets, etc.
5. A protective behavior was learned in the past due to an episode(s) of being dominated or bullied that actively prevents trance from happening.
Find out which of these is the culprit(s) and take action accordingly.
I hope this helps
John
Ian Williams said:
Hi John
How do you find and fix the problem?
ian
John Cleesattel said:There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested.
Example:
In a moment, I will say the name of a color. When I say this color you will notice that your left arm becomes very relaxed and begins feeling quite heavy. Let me know when you experience this so we can move on to the next step; Is that okay with you? Good. Are you ready? Good... Blue (snap).
Set compliance up as a condition to continue. If they aren't responding to what you are saying, find out right away and fix it, rather than wasting your breath any further.
just a suggestion
John
Permalink Reply by Michael Ellner on December 14, 2011 at 8:55am Hi Kelley, John, et al
@ John
You wrote: "There is a much easier method... ask the subject if they are experiencing what you suggested."
I agree there is great utility in asking the client if they are experiencing what we suggest or waching them experience our suggestions via their reactions to our suggestions
@ Kelley-
I suggest dropping the 90% of communication is non-verbal statistic from our minds - It is not true...
http://www.presentationworks.me/index.php/2009/11/mehrabian-on-the-...
How is your Dad?
Michael
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