Fans of John Cleesattel's stop smoking intervention

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Comment by Dan Perez on May 23, 2012 at 3:16pm

Talked to her briefly yesterday but did not do a followup except for some stress relief. It seems to be mostly stress--she's going through a lot. When we do the actual followup I will see what additional trigger might be there,

Comment by John Cleesattel on May 23, 2012 at 2:26am

That's some good advice Kelley...thanks!

John

Comment by Dan Perez on May 22, 2012 at 8:46am

Thanks for the advice. This guy is a biker and I think part or all of the trigger may be the rebellious nature of bikers (she went on and on about an extended motorcycle trip with the guy). I will report back--I am seeing her this evening..

Comment by Kelley Woods on May 22, 2012 at 7:20am

Hi Dan,

I was once married to a smoker (I've never smoked) and even though I agree that it can be like licking an ashtray, I was so attracted to that man that my mind screened the taste for me. You can help her do that by turning her attention to other sensations, fragrances, etc. You can also remind her that her breath is so fresh, so sexy that it is a respite for her boyfriend, an oasis for his own parched mouth...if she cares about him she will like the idea of helping him by staying smoke-free herself!

Comment by John Cleesattel on May 22, 2012 at 6:37am

Let us know how it ends up Dan :)

John

Comment by Charles Stevenson on May 21, 2012 at 1:27pm

I 2nd Johns' comments. 

There's got to be a trigger somewhere, eg perhaps there's something about not being able to obtain a boyfriend that doesn't smoke.

Perhaps she may need to give herself permission to become someone that starts to filter prospective boyfriends by whether they smoke or not. 

Perhaps it's linked to the group of people she knows ...

Ask her, either eye-to-eye via waking hypnosis or via trance; she has the answers, even if she doesn't know (yet) that she knows she knows.

There's always an answer if you let her ask herself the right question ...

Comment by John Cleesattel on May 21, 2012 at 12:29pm

Dan,

It all depends on what she wants.

Kissing someone who tastes like cigarettes if you don't smoke..is one of the worst things you can experience, and not an experience that would just make you want to go out and light up. Lick a dirty ashtray and check it out.

If there is a trigger involved, remove the trigger...but other than that...you can't remove her free will.

She will have to make the choice as to how much in common she wants to have with her new boyfriend...and how bad she really wants to be a non-smoker.

We can't control her life...we can only enable her choices for what she really wants.

Be advised... next week it could be a new girlfriend that smokes...just sayin..

John

Comment by Dan Perez on May 21, 2012 at 11:14am

Hey John, got a nonsmoking client coming in for a follow-up -- she has been under stress, so I plan to address that, but she also started dating a smoker and can taste the cigarettes when she kisses him, and the combination is causing her to relapse. Any advice on how to deal with that?  Thanks!

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