Sharing a success

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Permalink Reply by CindyLou on June 28, 2010 at 9:26am

Hi Randy,
I'd like to share a success I had last week, too. I do weight loss and on the second session I generally do parts therapy. I had the client in and we began parts therapy. She immediately had an abreaction so I thought, "This is it. I gotta do a regression." I'm not real skilled in regression yet, but I had a handy script. So I increased the intensity of those feelings, had her go back to the first time she felt that and she went back to age 7. Playing with other kids, her anorexic mother was talking to an adult and said "look what a big butt she has" speaking about client. That hurt her so bad. Child got out all the words, hurt, anger. She became the mother, responding to her child's hurt. Became the child again. Reframed. Forgave mother, forgave self. Back to today, as the adult,went back to the age 7 incident. Connected child and adult in love. 1-10 both coming back up to today, merging the two of them at 10. Emerge.

Thank heavens hypnosis is forgiving! I fumbled a bit. I am not sure that was the ISE, but it at least was the SSE, it was what needed to be resolved. I think I did okay. I haven't any feedback yet, but this is the work I want to do. I figure weight loss will give me a bunch of extra fun parts/regression work to do!
CindyLou

Permalink Reply by Randy Shaw on June 28, 2010 at 9:42am

Great work CindyLou,

I know it is important to resolve ISE's, however when we can help the client release pressure, the pressure of the trapped feelings, we are helping them immensely, even in SSE's. [Remembering that the SSE's are putting pressure on the ISE. ]

So what you did, whether you feel you are "not real skilled in regression yet," in my opinion you did great. Remember, the perception won't change until the feeling changes, so by letting her finally speak out (or cry or yell) her feelings out you are helping her create a cleansed, new perception of herself. If we can remember that "abreactions" are there because something in the past still hurts and is under pressure, there is something in the past that is SCREAMING for recognition and release, reconciliation. Opening up that sealed door and finally letting the body-mind vomit it out is very cleansing and always brings insight and peace - when released properly.

I'm so happy to see that you are doing excellent work, willing to do the processes and go with your intuitive impulse to regress and release the trapped/repressed feelings from childhood.

Thanks for sharing!

Randy

PS: would you care to post this report in our regression group? They would love to read your success and some are going to meet you anyway at Boot Camp.

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Permalink Reply by CindyLou on June 28, 2010 at 9:58am

Thanks for the nice words. Randy. I thought I did post this in the regression group!? Well, feel free to repost wherever you want. Anywhere where others can benefit is fine with me. See ya in August!
CindyLou