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Permalink Reply by Bob Brown, CHt, CNLP on February 21, 2008 at 6:45am

Well I am Bob.. My partner and I founded a number of erotic hypnosis sites all under the www.hypnofantasy.com banner. My personal interest is in awakening the bedrooms of the world. This means fantasy fulfillment, behaviour changing, and erotic exploration. Hypnosis has played a role in my bedroom and its my sincere hope it will play a role in many others. I am here to ask questions, answer questions and interact with interested members.

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Permalink Reply by Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) on February 21, 2008 at 4:12pm

Okay. Well, I'm Wiseguy, as in http://www.asstr.org/~Wiseguy (hey, you said self-promotion was okay!). ;^)

I've been writing (fictionally) about erotic hypnosis for nine years and practicing actual non-erotic hypnosis for five. It's only been within the last year or so that I've done any erotic hypnosis in real life. Lack of partner/SO is the primary reason for that; I've got plenty of imagination.

-wg

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Permalink Reply by Bob Brown, CHt, CNLP on February 21, 2008 at 4:24pm

Excellent intro Mark.. I will check out your stuff as we are always looking for the next American Idol in Erotic Hypnosis...

bob

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Permalink Reply by Bob Brown, CHt, CNLP on February 27, 2008 at 6:25pm

Welcome Snick... What would you like to know... I have found many people can't explain/discuss NLP.. so not sure I will help you any better.

I use some of the phrasing, pacing andcheesy bar tricks that come with it...

bob

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Permalink Reply by Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) on February 29, 2008 at 11:38am

Hey, snick!

NLP gurus get upset when people say this, but really ... seriously ... NLP is pretty much indirect waking suggestion packaged as a product. You're probably using it already without even entirely realizing it or calling it NLP.

-wg

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Permalink Reply by Bob Brown, CHt, CNLP on March 4, 2008 at 6:09am

Try this... look at someone and say.. Funny, isn't it.. pause and then complete your sentence.. see how many give you a slight laugh...

My cheesiest bar trick is the funny finger where you program laughter into the tip of their finger. Online I offer the Yahoo Orgasm Buzz... Ladies are triggered to orgasm on the sound of the Yahoo Buzzer.

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Permalink Reply by Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) on March 5, 2008 at 5:16am

I like Bob's "Funny, isn't it" example. Others that I'm often guilty of using unconsciously include:

- "How cool is that?" when describing something I'm excited about.
- "I'm not going to tell you to (A) because ..." -- often used on my kids when I want them to do (A) of their own accord.

The funny finger and the orgasm buzz are, of course, anchors. I use anchors a lot in conjunction with hypnosis but I've never seen anyone do an orgasm anchor without some kind of trance session to evoke the feelings along with the anchor.

Can you elaborate on that one, Bob? Or is this a bad place? ;^D

-wg

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Permalink Reply by Bob Brown, CHt, CNLP on March 5, 2008 at 5:53am

Here you go.. check out my blog post

http://hypnofantasy.blogspot.com/

Read the comment .. its a testimonial.. I do not know the person.

bob

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Permalink Reply by Zillah Dryke on April 18, 2008 at 3:12am

Embedded commands and questions work quite nicely as well, such as saying-So I was wondering if you could (A). The addition of words before a command eliminates most unconcious resistance to questions or causative statements. If used with congruence and finesse, a person can get away with some outlandish material. Another tool that works quite well is the "quotes" game. Basically, if you are repeating something that you heard from another source, you are not held responsible for what you say, or the impact that your words may have. For example, sometimes I go to school, see? Now, I am the type of person that, at times, may pull an all nighter. So, when I'm in class, sometimes I can look a bit drowsy. Now, my teacher, Mr. Dowry, is no slacker at being perceptive, so when he thinks that I'm not absorbing all the material he presents, he'll shout "Get Your Head Out Of Your Ass And Pay Attention!" and I'll snap up in my seat, and I sure won't be tired for at least the rest of his class that day. Isn't that a horrible thing to do to a student? ^.-

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Permalink Reply by Brian David Phillips on March 4, 2008 at 5:46pm

NLP is a pretty wide area . . . basically, it's not one thing but a collection of techniques, processes or concepts. What are you having trouble wrapping your head around?

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Permalink Reply by Dan Shackelford on March 9, 2008 at 1:51pm

Howdy, I just joined and thought I would share a brief introduction. I have been interested in the erotic aspects of hypnosis for many years but it is only within the last few years that I have really started using erotic hypnosis on a regular basis. I have had a fairly regular stream of guys ask me about erotic hyponosis sessions to help them realize fantasies or experience fetishes they feel too inhibited to experience "in the flesh". I have to admit I also enjoy doing this for them. I am here to learn new tricks and techniques and to share with others of similar ilk.

-Shack

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Permalink Reply by Paul Duncan on March 10, 2008 at 7:47pm

Hello, I'm Paul. A few years back I stumbled upon David Shade's Masterful Lover's Manual, about hypnosis for sex.

Which blew my mind. In many ways, that book is what got me really interested in hypnosis as a whole.

Um, not only that, but as I came to understand the nature of trance, I realized I'd been hypnotizing my girlfriends long before the book, using gentle LIGHT stroking over their bodies. The way that you might use a confusion induction, bringing many things to the subjects' attention and overwhelming them, this is how I would caress my lovers - in many different ways, with both my hands, all my fingers, even my feet! All at different paces, at different speeds, using my nails out of nowhere, and as I noticed certain responses, I would file them away for later use, so that eventually I would be truly proficient at "playing" their bodies like I would my guitar.

I was aware at the time that I was "playing with them", but realizing that it was hypnosis, and what that meant, suddenly the boundaries of possibility were gone. I've on occasion been absolutely amazed at the responses I've gotten...! The rest of the world has got a blanket over its collective head as to what "good" sex it, as far as I'm concerned...

Anyway, I'm looking forward to seeing what other people are doing with this stuff...

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