Ideal dom/sub?

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Permalink Reply by Floyd T. McGuire on May 17, 2010 at 10:48am

The iseal sub in my opinion is Submissive, Obedient, Passionate, Enthusiastic, and playful. For whatever my opinion is worth, thewre you have it. Taking applications for subs and slaves. LOL

Permalink Reply by Eric Paul LaRue on May 17, 2010 at 11:05am

Sounds simple, straight, and to the point. ;-)

Permalink Reply by Eric Paul LaRue on May 17, 2010 at 11:10am

I'd have to say I follow a similar set of criteria - someone who enjoys submitting and obeying for its own sake, and isn't so much just looking to roleplay a humiliation or bimbofication scenario. I mean, I respect that there are those that enjoy those things, but as a dom, wouldn't it be more useful to me to increase their intelligence, rather than decrease it? Or to make them more talented and competent? :-)

Permalink Reply by SirQittus on May 30, 2010 at 3:50am

My ideal sub derives pleasure from submitting, appreciates my sense of humor, and is intelligent, perceptive, open-minded, imaginative, and of course a very good hypnosis subject. And no, you can't have her, but thanks for asking. :-)

Permalink Reply by Alexx D on August 9, 2010 at 3:39pm

As a switch I think the answers to both questions for me are pretty much the same..
For me being Dom (which is far more often) brings out a sense of tenderness in me, I know I wouldn't cross the boundaries of someone I love because that's not what I'm after, so that's what I'd look for in someone else as well.
I could list different characteristics but honestly it comes down to being able to be open with a person about who I am, and who they are (and want to be), pushing the boundaries a little whithout crossing them, and since nobody 's perfect a sense of humor goes a very long way either way :)

Permalink Reply by littleSHIN on January 9, 2011 at 2:57am

hello E/everybody ...

 

... i would agree with Rick Crockett to some point. the best submissives i had were pretty strong minded and dominant personalities.

 

for me personaly there is no challenge in it, if he/she submits from the very start. i need something to work with, something that challenges my skill (still based on SSC of course). i just love strong and imaginative minds, who never fail to surprise me.

 

for me personaly, the feeling i get when a strong and intelligent mind submits to me, is ... well ... hard to explain. it's just incredible and i wouldn't wanna miss it. :)

 

hugs&kisses,

lil miss Shin

Permalink Reply by Christa on May 4, 2011 at 5:04am

I totally agree they are subs because that is what they want.  In my opinion most men in high position

are submissive, I am not saying all but the majority are.  They have high powered jobs and so much

pressure making big decisions in their corporate lives, and telling people what to do.  They want to

give the power over to someone else and they want to be in that position, I have many years experience

hearing different men tell me this, 

Floyd T. McGuire said:

The iseal sub in my opinion is Submissive, Obedient, Passionate, Enthusiastic, and playful. For whatever my opinion is worth, thewre you have it. Taking applications for subs and slaves. LOL

Permalink Reply by Richard Graham on May 14, 2011 at 1:24pm

As a sub, I enjoy trusting my dom to explore together fantasies and to just handing over power and letting go and seeing what eventuates. Fun is a real turn on for me. Having someone control me and returning me to an earlier age of innocence is especially hot

Permalink Reply by Susan French on May 25, 2011 at 4:49am

Where are the girls here?  Girls.  Wouldn't you like to get your dishes washed, floors scrubbed, errands run and feet massaged?  Step up already!

 

LOL

 

Susan

 

Besides Christa and Me...lol.

Permalink Reply by Eric Paul LaRue on June 13, 2011 at 12:03pm

Yeah, what's the deal?  Why aren't more ladies answering this discussion?  ;-)

Permalink Reply by N'Kash on August 7, 2011 at 12:39am

 The Ideal sub to and for me is trusting ,passionate ,playful and above all Obedient, she must enjoy letting go. Playfulness is a real value to me. Our Play/Contact must be at it's core Pleasure bound. She has to enjoy surprises amd accept that she is always safe with me. We must have an open line of contact with her Un-con. She must be willing to learn about herself and explore new things as they may come up. My sub has to be willing to bathe in the Idea that there is no Upper limit to her Pleasure with me. Ooo yes I do Love Obedient girls. It's been a while since I've been Gifted with such a Special sweet Spirit, but I'm looking. :-(

Permalink Reply by John Cleesattel on September 3, 2011 at 3:15pm

The ideal sub, (to me) is one that has a need to submit that is as strong as mine need is to lead. She willingly gives power over herself to me for my use, in exchange for me using her as she craves to be used.

 

John

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