Hi everyone,
I've been so puzzled as to how I could be practicing for 10 years and not really understand the structure of suggestions and how they fit in a script. I can write scripts off the top of my head and on paper but only by feel and intuition. That has been bugging me mightily.
As a result of learning John Cleesatel's ideas on the nature of trance from his ebook I suddenly realised why the logic of suggestions escaped me.
This is just an idea in progress. Feel free to add, postulate or question.
Just please don't tell me that there doesn't have to be order to suggestions or that there doesn't need to be any logical understanding of the nature of suggestions.
Why??? Because if there wasn't any need, I wouldn't be asking.
Here goes: I went back to all of my books with the idea of analyzing what was there and seeing if I could see patterns or connections.
This was my ephiphony. In reading the scripts from all my books I realized that each "piece" or "unit" in the scripts was kind of similar to John's macro idea in his The Nature of Trance. Each "piece" or "unit" is like a representation in NLP.
When in pain, for instance, we tell the client to create a representation of the pain and then we suggest ideas to apply to THAT REPRESENTATION (i.e., unit, grouping of ideas that become a "whole".) The ideas to apply would be like make it smaller, let it fade, erase it, put it in the past, etc.
What I think I figured out about suggestions is that if we view them as "representations," "units," "entitites", "gestalt"...you do the same thing in trance.
I found in testing that calling each representation "X = " (or whatever) it really seemed to work well.
By "X = " I mean think in terms of algebra. "X" represents anything you decide it is.
For instance, you can decide that X="behavior you don't like" or X="go back to an goal you accomplished that made you feel empowered" or X="part that doesn't want to" or X="part that wants to or X="the event that started this feeling that you don't like or even X="the feeling you don't like," X="the future you would like to have" and so on.
When I looked at the scripts in that way, they suddenly became manageable to me. Try it and tell me what you guys think.
So, I guess you could say a script formula might be X="the behavior you don't like + Y=the benefits of the behavior you would like to keep + Z=the behavior you would like to have + A= the feelings you've had when you've had a success = the kind of lanuage (symbolic) that the SCM understands which results in change.
Here I'm fuzzy again as to the 3 minds John's idea encompasses, so I'll have to refer back to John.
Tell me how this works for you guys, especially those of you who, like me, don't feel comfortabled blathering on with no real purpose and hoping that it works.
Susan
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