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When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?
Started this discussion. Last reply by docregal.com Nov 16, 2011. 30 Replies 0 Favorites
I have been working on communication skills for over a year now with a client who feels inadequate due to constant, degrading verbal abuse and several severe beatings as a child, thus ANGRY.Recently,…Continue
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docregal.com replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?
Lisa Hires, C.Ht. replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Sorry, AJ, but don't you think you're jumping to way too many conclusions here? Such behavior reminds me of my client.
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Lisa Hires, C.Ht. replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Thank you, that is precisely the question I should have been asking myself, what is he defending (avoiding)? I just get so caught up in how many and how overwhelming his issues are that sometimes I forget to just keep it simple.
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docregal.com replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Learning from experience? Or shall I say, "reviewing" a timeline. ;-)
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Don replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"I have deleted the posting you cited below, as I am still learning from experience.
Don
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docregal.com replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Now that you have access to some of my "metaphysical" awareness, actually read what I have posted from the beginning until present day. Skimming is allowed the first time through. Questions can be asked, if ever you are perplexed. Not that…"
Michael Ellner replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Bravo-- Great wisdom is often found in very short stories--
Michael E.
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docregal.com replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Funny, Don. My proof is in the pudding. Can I spoon feed you? LOL
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Don replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Hi Kelly,
Amen! The number of schemas, or fundamental beliefs about the self, the world, and the future, is theoretically without limit -- which is why hypnosis and cognitive-behavioral psychology, with deals with the identification and modification…"
Don replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Hi Donna,
I agree wholeheartedly about the need to avoid non-productive labels. Shakespeare said, “What’s in a name? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” But if you have ever seen the subjects in a stage hypnosis show…"
Donna Carter replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"@AJ,
It has been most enjoyable and educational.
@Lisa,
Labels.... are so tedious, aren't they? You are 'angry'. You have a 'defense mechanism'. You are 'smart'. etc.
I try to avoid the non-productive…"
docregal.com replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"
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docregal.com replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Areas to research you inquire? Here are some for starters:
1. Regression, Progression and Parallel Realities
2. Telepathy, Telekinetics and other E.S.P. Phenomena
3. Magnetism, Fascination and Presence Work
4. Divination, Energy Work and…"
docregal.com replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"
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Kelley Woods replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Or, it could be that this person is a subscriber to the belief that one should be impervious not only to insults...but also to compliments! Of course, it is also said that while it is wrong to pretend to be too big, it is also improper to pretend to…"
Don replied to Lisa Hires, C.Ht.'s discussion When someone refuses to accept a compliment, is it a Defense Mechanism?"Hi Lisa,
Technically, it's called a cognitive distortion, which is a cognitive-behavioral term rather than a Freudian defense mechanism. See the link for the complete list of cognitive distortions together with their definitions, all of which…"
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- I was a professional golfer on the ladies mini-tours for many heartbreaking years. My coach believed a great deal in hypnosis and used it extensively with my golf training. I'm positive it was the reason I was able to achieve numerous personal and professional changes. I was so intrigued with the affects hypnosis had on my behavior that when my attempt at a golf career was over, I just had to study hypnosis for myself. Not only to understand how such wonderful things could happen in my life so easily but also to one day be able to pass on to others the same type of miracles.
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