Rebecca Jeffers M.Ed., LPC, CCH's Page

So he is too aroused, rather than not aroused enough. Well you could try and find something that would reduce his arousal. For example I bet if he thought about his mother in law before he was about to orgasm, then he would calm down a bit!

This might be taking it a bit too far. Perhaps when he feels he is about to orgasm, he could be triggered to think about his job, what he needs to buy from the store, or something else equally as mundane. You could suggest that this will calm him down for 2 or 3 minutes, as you do not want him to have problems at the other end of the scale!

Then he can become more and more aroused again, and when he is ready, he can use his trigger word to calm himself down again. This is usually a very effective method for helping people with the problem you described.

Also the Chinese have a philosophy that if you hold your breath and stop when about to orgasm, then you will not orgasm. After 20 or 30 seconds, he should be ready to continue. They believe that it is not possible to orgasm when the breath is being held, so he could experiment with this.

Hi Rebecca! No I did not get any responses to erectile dysfunction, but I do have some strategies on how to help treat it. I usually get them to focus on their partner when having an intimate moment. Really focus on the touch of their skin and hair, the smell of their body, how they look, the sounds that they make, even how they taste. This helps them remove any thoughts they may have about themselves and their performance, as they are focusing so much on their partner.

If the subject has been in a relationship for a long time, then I may also bring up how they felt about their partner when they were first dating, how they felt so excited about them. And I remind them that this is the very same person now, except there is a stronger bond as you know each other better than ever.

Hope this helps Rebecca!

Pleased to meet, greet & connect here, heartful hypno queen! My name is Jen, and I am easing into building my hypno practice in Santa Fe, NM.

Blissful Blessings!

Jen

Hi Rebecca,
Just wanted to let you know I will be in San Antonio with Richard and John. Perhaps we can meet there
Hugh Cole
Texas Tranceman

The fundamentalists do not like anyone,but that is not traditional Christianity, although they pose as traditional. Your perspectives would be interesting and stimulating to most "seekers',Christian or not.
thanks, William

Wow, I loved your website! Your psycho-spiritual work looks wonderful.
Would you ever be interested in working with on a class for those coming from a traditionally Christian worldview ? I like the picture by the stone with the dog. Good part of town, I know Hulen and of course Hulen Mall! stay in touch, William

Thank you for asking about teaching for Anne King. I just sent her an email expressing my willingness to return in 2009. However , I know she may already be committed to some other presenters. If you are so inclined you might want to contact her and ask if I will be back,the evaluations from her students were all the highest marks,so it is possible I could be asked back.
Stay in touch,William

Great, you will enjoy Richard he is very knowledgeable!
He also has the deepest VOICE,wow,perfect for hypnosis!
I knew Chicago was a long shot,but some students have come from Oklahoma. Have a wonderful time with richard,he knows me and we claim each other as friends. Best wishes, William

Hello, I went to seminary at TCU and my son just graduated in may from
undergrad with a 3.8 and he loved Fort Worth!
Anne King in the Bourne /San Antonio area had me in to teach in Sept.of 2007 and 2008. Welcome to the field,look up my school,www.mitchellinstitute.com I have an Intensive training next week in Chicago,maybe you could fly in?
Best wishes, William