Creepy Call.

Hi Carol,

  He may have had no idea what EFT is. My guess would be if that was his intent and who knows-he was trying to see if you would, in a very round about way, without coming right out and asking since it is likely illegal or somehow shameful to him. I doubt there was anything in your advertising stuff that really made him think it was possible with you. He was probably just hoping. Very often in the various fetish worlds people use code words to find each other and some of those words because of their nature, overlap into other realms. I don't fault people for asking, it just isn't something I am interested in. I'd far rather someone just safely ask me than just show up and waste both our time. I have my hands full just trying to figure out pacing, inflection, and tone. My life is already complicated enough for me without adding more stuff to worry about ;)

gentle day,

Lisa 

Well, Lisa, if I was listed as hypno dom, I could understand his inquiry a bit more.

Well, Im listed as hyponotist or hypnotherapist or EFT Practitioner all over the web...might have been the EFT thing but he specifically said the world Hypnosis a few times...Maybe he was truely unknowledgeable about hypnosis, still after I told hiim I do NOT touch clients, he kept on...hope I dont get more of these. It thru me off guard for sure....kind of like on dating sites.. men will say something inappropriate, my response is .. Would you asked me that or say that to me in the checkout line at Walmart or a Grocery store...of course they say no....so I then tell them to please refraine from such now...Only a BF or Spouse would be allowed to discuss "such" or say "such" to me....just a perv I think he was.

 Hi Richard,

   I was wondering if he was just fishing for an erotic hyp dom going through the phone book. Seems silly to make sex workers call themselves something else. 

gentle day,

Lisa 

If he thought you were a massage person, remember, many states have chased the hookers out of massage with strict licening lawas and enforcement (Texas).    The hooks still exist, but they call themselves something else.    In Oklahoma that is not true and the "massage" business in Oklahoma draws the customer loking for a hooker....  And so if he was confused, then it makes sense....

Of course, since Texas makes the hookers call themselves something else, it could have been a Texan trying to figure out what we in Oklahoma call our hookers.....

Which all leads to an unrelated topic:   Amsterdam.

In Amsterdam they simple label things as they are.   As a result, there is no confusion....  Massage does massage, hypnotists hypnotize, and hookers hook...

 

 Hi Carol,

    I am in training so haven't started a practice where people can call me. My first thought would be confusion (is this really happening?), followed quickly by disbelief (did the printer somehow screw up my ad and I never noticed???), then Id try to not laugh out loud (oh sweet mother of Earth-this guy somehow thinks this is negotiable or even possible???!!!).  

   I am very curious about how often this does happen. Too bad you can't give him a suggestion over the phone to lose your number! I wonder if that guy ever calls up his dentist or his optometrist like this? Maybe I should consider hiring a marine drill sergeant as a receptionist...

gentle day,

Lisa