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Finding the Good in Goodbye
I recently had a bereavement client who was struggling with the loss of a close relative. The client came in and informed me that they didn’t think I would be able to help as she needed answers only her dead relative could answer. Well as I’m not a psychic or a medium and have no ability to talk to the dead, I had to agree with her that due to my skill base or lack of it I wouldn’t be able to ask her dead relative.
So I asked her what questions she wanted answered, and she told me. I then sat back and asked her to tell me her story, which she did. I listened intently and occasionally asked a question of my own. Now the most fascinating thing was that within her story as she shared her narrative where all the answers to her questions.
With a little bit of help from me and a little bit of discussion we discovered all the answers where there hiding in plain sight only hidden by the fact that she had never told her story out loud and had never looked objectively at her story from the position of someone looking in.
To her amazement and if I’m honest to mine we answered all the questions and dealt with 3 years of unresolved pain in 50 minutes. She stood up and said “It feels like a giant weight has just been lifted of my shoulders, I’m so relieved” I love a good positive physical metaphor; I shall never cease to be amazed at the minds capacity for healing or my client’s ability to change.
An Irish Blessing
May the road rise to meet you
May the wind always be on your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
And may the rains fall soft upon your fields
Walk in peace and contentment
Wherever on your road you may be
And till we meet again
May god hold you gently in the hollow of his hand.
With respect Nath