Getting over relationships

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Comment by Mark Hill on December 6, 2008 at 11:15am

Amnesia and memory erasure is also very dangerous. Memories have negative and positive impact on other aspects of our lives and form who we are. When you erase or block a memory it can have very dangerous adverse affects on a person. If a person wants to get away from someone or just forget them, it leaves a situation open for them to be involved again with that person since they don't remember the faulty relationship from the first time. One extreme situation of this was a woman who wanted to have the memory of a rape erased, she had trouble going out in public for the fear of it happening again. The hypnotist gave in to her wishes and she later returned to the same area and was raped again by the same man. She had no memory of the first attack and was not cautious.
Hypnotic amnesia is temporary, but memory erasure blocks the memory, Memories can't be erased but they can be permenantly blocked from the conscious mind. I have only used memory erasure once. Extrme care and phrasing has to be used.
Temporary amnesia can be a problem if used improperly. I use it for post hypnotic suggestions with a phrase that they will remember everything after the suggestion is completed. That way they won't try to analyze and defeat the benefits of the suggestions, but afterwards the memory returns and they are grateful.

Comment by John Cerbone - The Trance-Master on December 6, 2008 at 7:52am

I have written and published several High-Impact scripts on this particular topic, some tailored to the woman's point of view, and some tailored to the man's point of view.
The one issue most people who initially call have presented, is they want to totally forget about this other person. The truth is, it's more important that they move on with their lives, almost as if they've done seven to fifteen years worth of healing, rather than having me induce temporary amnesia about this person, which will only wear off over time.

Comment by Mark Hill on December 6, 2008 at 7:40am

I have a process I use by creating rooms in the subconscious. For instance a Recording room that holds cassettes of everything said and heard, positive and negative. They can go into this room and erase the negative impact someone or something has in their life. They also can listen to inspiring words from a loved one they respect and have positive words played in a loop. They come back and tell be they keep hearing this phrase.
There are other rooms for for seeking wisdom or information, healing Rm., and more. I let them imagine a long hallway with doors to each room. They can go on their own through self hypnosis, I teach each client how to go into selfhypnosis so they can continue improving their lives.

Comment by Michael Ellner on December 6, 2008 at 3:10am

I have helped 1000s of clients move on in their lives after break-ups (for whatever reason) that they were deeply disturbed by and were having problems getting over it in the past 2-1/2 decades.

I find that creating a safe-place to actually feel and process their feelings with the suggestion that actually feeling -instead of thinking about feeling is what is required for moving on. I briefly describe a few approaches that could help them do that and let them decide on the approach... As soon as they tell me what approach will work for them - I guide them through that "hypnotic ritual" with the expectation -- they will experience a shift that will allow them to feel ready, willing and strong enough to close the finished chapter and open a new chapter of their lives....

Comment by Jon Rhodes on December 5, 2008 at 11:56pm

Yes I have had success with this therapy in the past. It is all in the mind - As soon as you accept that it is over for good, and appreciate the relationship for the time it lasted, then you are free! I try to get patients to look more objectively at a past relationship. Appreciate the time they had, and appreciate that this is now no longer meant to be.