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So yesterday I was working with a Smoking Cessation Client and was using a technique that I learned where you have the person imagine that they are a 6 year old little girl or boy. In my case since my client was female a 6 year old little girl. Now the idea here is to have her imagine herself as a 6 year old little girl wearing a very special pretty dress or sweater or something that she had been given as a present and then say now as an adult you know how silly it would look if you came out wearing that pretty dress with a cigarette hanging out your mouth. Isn't it silly for you to want to smoke now. (I've condensed it just to save space here, those of you that have used this will know that it's more detailed)

Anyway, so I have the client nice and deep and I go into this.
Me: Can you remember when you were about 6 or so and perhaps were given a special present, maybe a pretty dress or pretty outfit?
Client: Yes
Me: OK what were you given that was a special present
Client: A gun and holster

Now come on there was no way I could go on with "wouldn't it look silly to see a cigarette hanging out of you mouth while wearing that guy and holster" all that ran through my mind was "The Marlboro Man" (big grin)

Yep, I had to take a deep breath, reframe my thoughts without laughing outloud and then ask if there was another time that she received a peice of clothing that she really loved and she came up with a "pretty pink sweater when she was 17" so again, since she started at 16 I went...bugger....but then went with the wouldn't it have been a shame to ruin that pretty sweater with ashes or a burn, and how many clothes have you ruined since then.

Thinking about it now I guess I could have used the gun and holster and connected it with maybe, how guns kill and so do cigarettes, hmmm.

But it sure as heck gave me a chuckle and my husband when I told him what happened. Being in our career field you definitely have to know how to "think on your feet" as it were.

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Comment by Bonnie Robinson on March 22, 2009 at 9:37am
Yes I was leading her as the "dress concept" was something that I wanted to work with, I assumed being female that she would have had one, kind of like when you say, remember a time when you were sad, happy etc. That's leading too but sometimes I feel you want to "lead" to a certain memory or feeling in order to then use that feeling, memory to compare to another. Of course I will be the first to admit that "leading" is not always appropriate.
Comment by the grumpy hypnotist on March 21, 2009 at 3:25pm
Hi Bonnie,

"Me: Can you remember when you were about 6 or so and perhaps were given a special present, maybe a pretty dress or pretty outfit?
Client: Yes"


That really sounds like you are leading the client into confabulating memories. If you want to use that technique, you may want to suggest broadly "Can you imagine yourself at a time when you were very little and happy... " --- without causing her to manufacture ("remember") a memory based on some arbitrary fantasy that you've created for her.
Comment by Will Dissolver on March 21, 2009 at 3:20pm
Yes it does; one of the interesting things I've seen is how many hypnotists seem to think that occurrences like this are stumbling blocks, rather than opportunities.

Think about it; if the subject comes out with something that's unusual, it is something to which they attach greater than normal importance; an item of high potential.

Which means its value as a reframing tool is even greater than normal, as well.

What a wonderful opportunity for change your subject handed you!

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