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Feelings, whether good or bad, nearly decide how we react to a particular situation. Whether we blow a small situation out of proportion or we ignore a major setback.It all depends upon what we feel or perceive at a given time.
Its good to be a sensible human being and enjoy the feelings or deal with them.The problem starts when we hand over the control of our feelings to the outer world.For example an employee works not for himself but for promotion or other such acknowledgement from others or from the company.Situation can be managed at this level but the employee really gets upset or depressed when he fails to get the acceptance or acknowledgement.This is where he goes wrong,he has given the control of his feelings to someone else.
This equation is so true for any given situation, we keep giving others the power to make us upset,make us angry,smaller or not worthy enough.The solution lies with the babies.Have you ever observed a new-born baby,the baby is extremely confident of his entire existence, proud of all his body parts, his emotions, he does not think twice before displaying his displeasure or happiness in the most raw form, as suggested by our civilized world.In other words, the baby thinks that he is perfect.Now think, we were all born "Perfect" and so is everything else in the nature, so were did we get our negative belief systems, rarely people think that they are perfect,that they are beautiful, even if some of us think, we are always comparing ourselves against benchmark set by others or by the society we live in.So here is the answer, we get our belief systems from the people and society we live in. Nature never made any benchmarks, according to her.. all her creations are beautiful and perfect.
Next time when you are faced with a situation which is not as per your expectations, think again, think that you are always perfect and beautiful part of nature...so what even if some other people don't acknowledge it.. take back your control from them.Judge yourself on your own benchmarks.Even if others do not recognise your work, approve it yourself with all your love, because its your work, it has your signature, your efforts.. and it has to be nice, perfect and beautiful like everything else in the nature.
Its good to be a sensible human being and enjoy the feelings or deal with them.The problem starts when we hand over the control of our feelings to the outer world.For example an employee works not for himself but for promotion or other such acknowledgement from others or from the company.Situation can be managed at this level but the employee really gets upset or depressed when he fails to get the acceptance or acknowledgement.This is where he goes wrong,he has given the control of his feelings to someone else.
This equation is so true for any given situation, we keep giving others the power to make us upset,make us angry,smaller or not worthy enough.The solution lies with the babies.Have you ever observed a new-born baby,the baby is extremely confident of his entire existence, proud of all his body parts, his emotions, he does not think twice before displaying his displeasure or happiness in the most raw form, as suggested by our civilized world.In other words, the baby thinks that he is perfect.Now think, we were all born "Perfect" and so is everything else in the nature, so were did we get our negative belief systems, rarely people think that they are perfect,that they are beautiful, even if some of us think, we are always comparing ourselves against benchmark set by others or by the society we live in.So here is the answer, we get our belief systems from the people and society we live in. Nature never made any benchmarks, according to her.. all her creations are beautiful and perfect.
Next time when you are faced with a situation which is not as per your expectations, think again, think that you are always perfect and beautiful part of nature...so what even if some other people don't acknowledge it.. take back your control from them.Judge yourself on your own benchmarks.Even if others do not recognise your work, approve it yourself with all your love, because its your work, it has your signature, your efforts.. and it has to be nice, perfect and beautiful like everything else in the nature.
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Comment by GAIL GUEVARA on September 1, 2010 at 7:54am -
Beautiful. Yes a baby is born whole and perfect. I've come to realize that I am in the School of Life. I am here to learn my lessons, discover what my values are, what's important to me and how do I walk my talk in this life. What service can I give in this life to help others.
I am currently in a situation with my company that I have been employed with for over twenty-eight years in the bay area
My company intends to take away my health benefits, vacation and sick leave because my quarterly hours have fallen due to the recession. (I am a full time Personal Fitness Trainer/Group Teacher.) My company is owned by a high-end
corporation that owns very expensive resport clubs in America.
I am now sixty years old. I have become my own advocate in how this corporation views their values. Where money has become more important then the individual's, longevity, integrity, committment, discipline and devotion.
I will not go down without bringing plenty of food for thought about their choices..
There is nothing that could ever take away from my values, beliefs, the human being, compassion, and respect.
Look at where our country is now. Have we lost our human values? What is our countries relationship with money.
I believe we all need to look at the value and relationship to money just like you would with any other relationship.
What's important to you about it? How do you want to honor it? What respect do you have for it?
I love myself and respect myself to stand up for what I believe in. To help others find their way.
Because of this one situation, I wake up everyday in love with life, myself and my values.
Blessings.
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Comment by Jackie Spencer on August 31, 2010 at 8:24pm -
I've been talking a lot about the beginner's mind lately. Before we could label, judge, accept or reject we were able to quietly observe what is. I like the self-acceptance that comes with that state. Nice expression.
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