Hypnosis for finding a compatible rich woman to be my mate

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Permalink Reply by Susan French on July 2, 2008 at 12:32pm

So then does that mean that Dreams (I think that was the poster's name) has to become a rich, compatible woman? hehehe
Susan

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Permalink Reply by Vince Black on July 2, 2008 at 8:43pm

I think nothing beats being clear about what you want. I thinking writing down every aspect of what you would want out of a relationship, or anything else is a great way to directionalize you unconscious. Ive achieved several goals using this idea. They were never perfect but seemed to be more perfect than if I would have landed on them by chance. Happy Hunting. Vince.

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Permalink Reply by Conrad Cook on July 3, 2008 at 7:51am

What you want to do is to study up on Ross Jeffries and the Mystery Method. Two very different approaches which therefore compliment one another well. They're both pre-fab dating systems, which you'll probably want to adapt to your own personality (unless you don't have one, in which case having a pre-fab system might do you good).

I can't endorse making wealth a priority when it comes to mate selection. I imagine if they're young you'll have a lot of competition and you'll have to handle objections from the family, whereas if they're the power-broker ... well, then they're used to being the power-broker. Those who are self-made probably did not get to that position by being fools; and while I'm not saying you're trying to fool anyone, the fact that this is a priority of yours says something.

I imagine it's for reasons like these that guys who are looking for this kind of situation traditionally look for widows and divorcees. I can't think of a venue where you'd be likely to find a rich divorcee other than some kind of divorce support group; to find widows you can scan the obits.

You might find a trophy-widow, but if you're posting here for advice I don't imagine you'd be up for that kind of battle of wits, bearing in mind they know this game from both sides. With that said, the older, frumpier ex-trophy-wife might quite appreciate the role-reversal.

If that doesn't do it for you, you might try scoring a war-widow. They're not usually rich, but I understand that Uncle Sam has an interest in keeping them off the streets. And why should Haliburton be the only one to benefit from the Iraq debaucle? War-widows are likely to go for the heroic type -- which, let's face it you're not, but maybe you could fake it for long enough to rush things through -- and they're also used to a husband who's not, shall we say, present -- which you will be. So if you're brave enough to live in the shadow of Unfavorable Comparison for love -- plus that little subsidy -- crash your local war widow support group and look for the cute ones.

Now you want to keep this all at the unconscious level, which I can understand completely, because very few of us would want to think of ourselves as being this calculating. However, if you really want to live free of all responsibility, you need to *face* that. You *can* hypnotically program yourself to accept no responsiblity for your unrelenting drive to retreat into a parent-child relationship, but only by making a considered choice to.

In any case, you'll want to do a lot of practice dating until you find the girl who's right enough for you, because if you don't have practice in those social skills you won't be able to reel her in, *nor* able to ascertain her checking balance.


Conrad.

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Permalink Reply by Susan French on July 3, 2008 at 8:12am

Conrad...thanks for your take on Iraq. I agree with you completely. We should talk....lol.

Susan

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Permalink Reply by Conrad Cook on July 3, 2008 at 8:22am

Sorry, babe. You don't make enough for me.

Conrad.

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Permalink Reply by Justin James on July 3, 2008 at 8:15am

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Can this be done? If I'm a psychological researcher I won't exactly be wealthy even though it would be something I'd likely enjoy a lot.

I'd like to find a lifelong partner who will be successful at something lucrative yet also highly compatible with me psychologically.

Can you program your subconscious to get this? Some would argue yes. What do you all think? I obviously don't want to consciously attempt this because I believe the subconscious knows better than I consciously as to what would work in the long term.

Ok guys I have been reading this all and I am having a chuckle. Conrad you have thought about this seriously before yourself I think.. you laid out quite the battle plan there...

Now interestingly enough Mentat has not responded to any of this. Personally Mentat I think perhaps if you jumped on here and clarified what you want you may get some better answers versus everyone running like Rats in a maze here... But then you are the Psych researcher are you not?

Now taking another stab at this, perhaps we are going the wrong way...

Why can't someone program themselves to find an entrepreneurial mate?

The fact is and who knows what he looks like because he does not have a picture... The fact is if Mentat has a steady income and stable job.. Why would someone think he needs special skills at all to land someone?/

The fact of the matter is if one partner is running a business and shooting the moon, 9 out of 10 would not want another partner that does the same thing... they are going to want someone who has the steady 9 to 5 job....

So perhaps more clarification is needed as to the type of woman he would want in his life personality traits and all and I am certain that you can program yourself to be attractive to that type of person.

In reality if it is done with good intent what is the harm??

Justin James

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Permalink Reply by Conrad Cook on July 3, 2008 at 9:58am

Why can't someone program themselves to find an entrepreneurial mate?

I don't see why they couldn't, once they accepted that they could be programmed.


Why would someone think he needs special skills at all to land someone?/

Isn't there implicit in Mentat's request to help land a rich widow a request to help land women?


The fact of the matter is if one partner is running a business and shooting the moon, 9 out of 10 would not want another partner that does the same thing... they are going to want someone who has the steady 9 to 5 job....

I hadn't realized he was going for a threesome. This guy is *ambitious*. But, ah... if one of his women is rich, couldn't the other do better than a 9-5?

I mean, share and share alike, yes?


In reality if it is done with good intent what is the harm??

Now don't go bringing up Iraq again...


Conrad.

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on July 3, 2008 at 12:57pm

lol* lol*

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Permalink Reply by Brian David Phillips on July 3, 2008 at 5:39pm

Why do you assume you won't be wealthy? What sort of "psychological researcher" are you? Why can't you have a goal of being successful in your own right which in turn will attract successful women to you? What about you ensures that you will not be wealthy?

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Permalink Reply by Mentat on July 4, 2008 at 8:55am

Well, researcher is not the most high paying career. I am going to choose differently. Thank you a ton for your input. I'll go into some occupation where I'm helping people. That makes more sense. I don't think there is anything about me that ensures that I won't be wealthy. Finances are important and what my future wife earns is a factor.

I was anticipating that I would be a researcher which is not exactly a powerful earning profession.

Thanks again...

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Permalink Reply by Brian David Phillips on July 4, 2008 at 3:49pm

That really depends upon the type of researcher and the context. There are plenty of "researchers" in psychology who make very good money. However, it's not really clear what it is you do or what you're on about. What do you do NOW? What is it that you anticipate doing when you describe yourself as a "psychological researcher"?

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Permalink Reply by Richard Rumble on July 4, 2008 at 8:17am

Mentat...

I think that you and everybody else is over thinking this one...

The Question: I'd like to find a lifelong partner who will be successful at something lucrative yet also highly compatible with me psychologically.

Can you program your subconscious to get this?

The Simple Answer: Yes you can... You can program yourself to seek out and be open to situations where you would be able to meet someone who will be your hearts content... But then YOU have to DO the things needed to get there and meet her and be your charming self etc... As one of my teachers says, " Sometimes you just have to remember to SHOW UP".

My first reply to the third part of that paragraph.. I think that you obviously don't want to attempt it because your AFRAID that you just might get it.... and then whatever would you do.....

Richard Rumble

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