Hypnosis for finding a compatible rich woman to be my mate

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Permalink Reply by Scott Sandland, C.Ht. on June 15, 2008 at 11:52am

I think there are too high a number of factors outside of your control and wild cards that come into play to say it's something as simple as programming your subconcious. Are you going to hypnotize yourself to find this girl? And then once you find her, do you hypnotize both of you to fall in love with each other? And to stay in love with each other? What about physical attraction, political views, geography, and so on? Also, do you hypnotize yourself to avoid a girl who is a match for you on every level except her income or potential earning power?

Hypnosis may help you to be a better partner, a better person, and a better spouse. But there are factors that occur outside your unconscious mind that must be considered.

Read the article, "If NLP is so Great, Where is my Porche" which you can find by googling the title.

Good luck,
-Scott Sandland

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Permalink Reply by Mentat on June 15, 2008 at 1:28pm

I'm working on the assumption which could easily be entirely wrong that the unconscious knows everything that is necessary regarding how to find the perfect mate. I sometimes take the knoweldge and understanding of the unconscious to an extreme. Why? Not sure. Might have to do with analysts as my influences. A lot of analysts believe that the unconscious "knows all" perhaps not literally but it really knows a lot maybe.

In consciously considering things the truth is that she might be in a very rare category making finding her an exceptional thing. I might need help from my subconscious.

Perhaps I can ask my unconscious for conscious understanding of how to find her? Again working on the assumption which can't really be proven that the unconscious knows the answer.

I will read the article. Nice title.

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Permalink Reply by James Hazlerig on June 16, 2008 at 9:04am

If you're interested in methods for this kind of thing, watch "The Secret." But be careful what you ask for--you might get it.

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Permalink Reply by Melissa J. Roth on June 16, 2008 at 7:45pm

Another young man I know tried the same thing. He is an investment banker who had a very well off elderly lady as a client. The lady had a single daughter who would inherit a BUNDLE of cash, securities and very high end commercial real estate. So when the elderly lady was diagnosed with cancer, the young man put himself in a position to "accidentally" meet her daughter on the tennis courts of her new townhome complex. He kept accidentally running into her all over town, asked her out, woo'd her and finally wed her. Three months after the wedding the elderly lady dies and his wife inherits it all--the mother load.

Things rock along. They take vacations, buy a house in the nicest part of town, boats and cars and a baby daughter. When the heiress quits spending money keeping him in the lifestyle he desired to live and decided to save for their retirement, etc. he grows bored and the grass begins to look greener. Mrs. Heiress catches him and dumps him. Since they didn't live in California the courts ruled that she got to keep all the inheritance and he got to pay child support. Poor Joe. He still complains to this day that he has to live on only $250,000 a year. He can barely make ends meet.

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Permalink Reply by Justin James on June 16, 2008 at 8:14pm

While nlp can certainly give you an edge so will reading Men are from Mars Women are from Venus.

You want a wealthy partner then hang out where they hang out get involved in areas that a wealthy person would be a part of. ECT.


Justin

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Permalink Reply by Conrad Cook on June 30, 2008 at 3:07pm

Yeah, just so you know...

According to Wikipedia, Dr. John Gray got his Ph.D. from a degree mill that was closed down a few years later.


Conrad.

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Permalink Reply by Richard Nongard - HypnosisGurus.com on July 3, 2008 at 1:48pm

The problem with Wikipedia, well, is wikipedia. The that the school WAS shut down eventually, when they failed to compy with new regulations. At the time Dr. Gray graduated, they WERE a california State Approved school meeting the requirements for licensure as a psychologist in California. So yes, they were shut down, but long after he graduated for a California state approved school.

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Permalink Reply by Brian David Phillips on July 3, 2008 at 5:35pm

The unaccredited degree issue was one of the things that Penn and Teller signposted about Gray in their BULLSHIT episode where they eviscerated him. While I may not agree with him, I felt sorry for him sitting there shifting in the chair looking like a dweeb while they run off on all his faults and more (they had the camera on him while he was waiting to shoot but it was one of those "the red light is off so the camera is not running" things where they were likely hoping he would scratch his ass or pick his nose). I enjoy their magic but find their methods way beyond the other side of ethical when it comes to debate - mostly straw man and ad hominem attacks intended to make an opponent seem foolish rather than debating issues themselves. Tip, if you are ever asked to do anything for Penn and Teller's show check to see if you are being filmed doing anything or if you're a talking head discussing someone else's work. If the former, then you are the victim, run. If the latter then you are the guest expert.

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Permalink Reply by Justin James on July 4, 2008 at 5:04am

Conrad I see no correlation to the status of a piece of paper and that particular book.. Dr. John Grey has certainly written some controversial works however barring some works that focus on strict manipulation, that book certainly lays out a ways to deal with women, men and relationships in an easy to read fashion.

Justin James

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Permalink Reply by Susan French on June 30, 2008 at 2:56pm

The problem with looking for a Sugar Momma is that the cute, smart, rich women are busy with their Sugar Daddies! Sorry, that was just a joke.

It was also something I said to some squirt who thought he could manipulate me into that position. At least he had the grace to laugh...lol.

Susan

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Permalink Reply by Elizabeth Dye on June 30, 2008 at 3:32pm

Another valid point ... is that what you may want today as a mate... partner.. etc.. may not be what you want next week. ..... Mmmmmmmm what a thought. I agree with Becareful what you wish for... You might actually get it ...

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Permalink Reply by Doreen Cohanim C.Ht on July 2, 2008 at 11:53am

To attract what you want you must be one!

Doreen

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