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Hypnosis for finding a compatible rich woman to be my mate

Can this be done? If I'm a psychological researcher I won't exactly be wealthy even though it would be something I'd likely enjoy a lot.

I'd like to find a lifelong partner who will be successful at something lucrative yet also highly compatible with me psychologically.

Can you program your subconscious to get this? Some would argue yes. What do you all think? I obviously don't want to consciously attempt this because I believe the subconscious knows better than I consciously as to what would work in the long term.

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Permalink Reply by Elizabeth Dye on July 4, 2008 at 4:14pm: Mentat ..
A thought occurs that most people .. male or female .... would consider theirselves and their significant other .. spouse .. whatever you call them these days.. if they were compatible pyschology wise. I happen to work in an urgent pyschiatric hospital ... .. heres the insert... laff..... but wouldn't you be rich if you did have someone that you really did get along with .. and enjoyed the same things you did .. and their are other things I could insert when thinking of compatibility.. but let your imagination run wild...; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mentat on July 4, 2008 at 8:53am: I appreciate all the writing to this post. Very insightful stuff. Sorry I haven't responded sooner as I'm very busy with summer projects. I hope you all have a nice 4th of July.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Celeste Hackett, CH on July 4, 2008 at 5:00pm: Psychologically compatable and rich? Is that what a happy union is based on? What if then, in walks your soul mate and you are stuck with the psychologically compatable and rich one that you programmed yourself for? hmmmm? What if your wife loses her ability to make money? Or her mind? What will you do then? I promise you there is no greater pain then that to be with a nice person, but not the one.

You are better off clearing up your Karma so you deserve the true love that your higher self knows will bring you the most happiness. Then, be so very grateful for it when it walks in and then do all you can to make your partner happy and comfortable. Focus more on what you can become for her and less on what she should be for you or you will be miserable.

If you ever are lucky enough to find true love, the love of the one already hand-picked for you, Mister, Thank your lucky stars. Let that be your goal....to clear out all weakness in you so you deserve her. Anything less will dissappoint you. Such things as important as this (and few things are as important as this) should not be left to the human mind alone. Pray, meditate, align yourself with goodness, beauty and self-sacrifice.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Justin James on July 4, 2008 at 5:07pm: No offense Celeste, what guy would not want a Psychologically compatible and wealthy or someone involved in a lucrative business??

And who is to say that that was not a soul mate??

Perhaps we are all a bit opinionated... The reality is Mentat asked a valid question... No one has assessed the morals or ethic behind it good or bad...

So the question is can it be done?

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Permalink Reply by Celeste Hackett, CH on July 4, 2008 at 5:19pm: Oh I see. Yes. It can be done. But take caution for all the reasons I told you. And yes the things I mentioned are my perspective. Good luck. Hows that justin? Better? LOL!

And just out of curiosity, why wouldn't you also want to program yourself for your soulmate as well? I'd just hate to see you unhappy.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Brian David Phillips on July 4, 2008 at 5:35pm: Justin, I believe it can be done . . . seen it done. However, the narrowness of Mentat's query doesn't mean it's not open to other avenues of discussion. Personally, I think the original phrasing was not just about psychologically compatible and successful mate . . . he wrote form a poverty mentality and belief that since he was doomed to financial non-success he would have to find it in a mate and that's an interesting tact as he is inherently assuming his wife must be more successful than himself. Besides, last I checked being wealthy is not a requirement for happiness (it's nice, don't get me wrong but if that's all your after then you're missing something). Celeste, if one believes in the karma thing and the higher self finding one's mate . . . sometimes one's mate for this life is specifically designed to provide one with new lessons which may not be based upon compatibility and more on baptism through fire. :-) If I wanted to program myself to find a mate . . . I would not just limit my visualization to psychologically compatible and financial security . . . I would definitely throw in sexual compatibility as well . . . and I am not being flippant. Sexual relations are a big part of healthy relationships . . . some folks put too little regard for them and others put too much but it's there and many relationships have faltered because of sexual drive incompatibility or sexual responsiveness issues and what this person likes or doesn't like. Personally, I recommend folks know all that before the big ol' wedding and pledging for all eternity but if you're more conservative you still need to know what makes you happy and what makes the other person happy and how to merge those two things without someone being extremely uncomfortable. So, Mentat, consider working on your list.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Celeste Hackett, CH on July 4, 2008 at 5:47pm: You wrote:
one's mate for this life is specifically designed to provide one with new lessons which may not be based upon compatibility and more on baptism through fire. :-)

And that's why I said clear your Karma or you could say (if you don't like the karma word, your own problems first), so you are more likely to skip these lessons. I've been married 3 times so I definitnely agree with you that people bring lessons and it's all good, but maybe it isn't necessary to learn the hard way.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Melissa J. Roth on July 4, 2008 at 5:53pm: Brian, you are so right about sexual compatibility. I see a lot of clients who have this as a door knob issue. Our session is basically over and they are on the way out but pause with one hand on the door knob and ask if I can help with their sexual issues with their spouse--they like different things, different appetites, etc. When I was getting married a few centuries ago the minister (who was a cousin) and I were walking around the church grounds talking about arrangements when he suddenly asked me if my fiance and I were living together. Remember, this was in the dark ages and in the deep South, not in today's world. I decided to be honest and said yes, He sighed with relief and admitted that he counseled couple to try living together for several months before they got married to see if they were really compatible over the long term and not just in the back seat of a car. He said he wished he had done so before he married his wife but the church wouldn't have allowed it.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Celeste Hackett, CH on July 4, 2008 at 6:04pm: On sexual compatibility. Generally...we are over-sexed as a society. It's not nearly as important as we like to think it is. We've hypnotized ourselves that if we are having lots of sex then we are young, hip and there is nothing wrong with us. Unless you have two people on two entirely opposite ends of the spectrum, the bigger problem isn't sexuality but maturity.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Brian David Phillips on July 4, 2008 at 6:05pm: Ditto on the living together thing. An old pre-Christian marriage custom among some tribes in Europe was that the young people would come before their parents and they would be given a home to live in for one year and a day. If at the end of that time they wished to be married then they were handfasted. Otherwise, they walked away with a bit more knowledge about themselves. For those whose cultures do not allow premarital sexual experience and living together (which is NOT just about sex, it's also about messy underwear laying about the place and toilet seats left up or down) they have a harder time truly understanding if they are compatible in all the significant areas of their life . . . albeit, statistically, even within groups that bar premarital sexual experience a large percentage do practice it they just do so with those nifty new inventions "guilt" and "shame".; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Justin James on July 4, 2008 at 6:09pm: Good Job Celeste, and yes Brian I agree with you completely compatability extends into many different arenas....

Oh and Celeste... I have a lot of fun with life.... In that I am blessed....

So now how would anyone technically program themselves for that... I am not throwing that out because I do not have an answer but because it would be interesting to explore technique.

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Permalink Reply by Celeste Hackett, CH on July 4, 2008 at 6:13pm: It's more about deprogramming, not programming. It' s about learning what you added, inadvertently, that isnt' authentically you and releasing that. If you aren't operating from your true self in relationships, then you'll be attracting someone based on that false self and you'll never be happy.....and worse, you won't quite know why. You'll just keep blaming them as being the problem or not good enough.; ▶ Reply to This